Kissing Ramon Some More Now

By J. H. Miller, Staff Writer

By asking for “more,” the fandom isn’t demanding a sex scene or a dramatic confession. They are demanding duration. They want permission to sit in the awkwardness, to see two people figure out what they mean to each other without a punchline or a fade to black. Kissing Ramon Some More is not a real sequel. There are no production deals, no casting calls. But it exists in the best possible place: the collective imagination. Kissing Ramon Some More

In the pantheon of early 2000s indie cinema, few scenes have managed to straddle the line between cringe-comedy and genuine tenderness quite like the climactic moment of The Valencia Diversion —colloquially known by fans as the “Ramon kissing scene.” They are demanding duration

Why the sudden love for a scene everyone once hated? Dr. Lena Friel, a professor of performance studies at NYU, argues that the scene’s revival speaks to a shift in how we view on-screen intimacy. There are no production deals, no casting calls

The next time you watch The Valencia Diversion , don’t skip the rain scene. Lean into the elbow-jab. Watch the way Ramon’s left hand hovers, unsure of where to land. Listen to the stutter in Mike’s exhale.

It may not be the most elegant kiss in cinema. But it might be the most honest. And honestly, we could all use some more of that.