But here is the tragedy the PDF cannot encode:

That is the only manual that has ever worked.

The manual teaches you to open with a "neg"—a backhanded compliment designed to destabilize. It teaches you to "negging," "peacocking," "kino escalation." It reduces the woman (for it is almost always heterosexual and aimed at men) to a system of inputs and outputs. Treat her like a combination lock, and if you turn the dials in the right order, click —affection.